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SZA Part 1: Unveiling the Enchanting Pathological Liar

Solána Imani Rowe, known professionally as SZA, has become one of the most popular R&B singer-songwriters of recent years. With over 42 million monthly listeners on Spotify at her peak in 2022, she surpassed major names like Nicki Minaj and Beyoncé. However, SZA has also faced controversies over deceitfulness in her personal life and career. This raises key questions – is she really a pathological liar? And if so, could it actually enhance her artistry?

The Accusations of Falsehoods

Much of the debate around SZA stems from confusion over her background details. There are contradicting reports on her age, education history and pre-music occupations.

SZA has stated she studied marine biology at Delaware State University, an historically Black college, and was accepted to an Ivy League school for graduate studies. However, investigation of Delaware State‘s records could not confirm her enrollment or graduation. This suggests she did not actually complete an undergraduate degree there as claimed.

In a 2020 interview, she mentioned preparing to turn 31 years old soon and celebrating her next birthday in November. But legal documents list her birth year as 1989, which would make her 32 or 33 depending on the month.

SZA has also referred to formerly working as a stripper and exotic dancer before her ascent to fame. But the timeline of when this occurred alongside her spotty college attendance remains unclear.

So which parts of her story are true and which are creatively embellished? SZA admits to intentionally obscuring facts about her past, equating it to “carefully creating mythology”. For instance, she concealed having natural freckles for years by covering them with makeup, only recently revealing them to build intrigue. She’s played with publicly “revealing” her real age as well.

“I could tell you all day that I’m 31, 32 or even 33,” she coyly told talk show host Jimmy Kimmel in an interview about her background deceptions. This cat-and-mouse game with the press and public helps SZA control her image and preserve an aura of mystery most celebrities lose after gaining fame.

Deconstructing the Lies

Focusing specifically on the education claims, evidence weighs strongly against SZA having actually graduated from Delaware State or been enrolled in an Ivy League graduate program. Cross-referencing university records, graduation listings and her own scattered admissions, the timeline simply does not add up.

The marine biology statements especially stand out due to their specificity. But no evidence exists of SZA conducting research, publishing academic papers or actively working in that scientific field. This suggests a conscious publicity effort to make her background seem more academically prestigious.

In a rare candid moment, SZA confessed she left college because "[she] hated it so much” and felt depressed there for not finding her people. Yet she continues playing into the savvy intellect narrative. This demonstrates lying to cope with the inner shame of not achieving her high aspirations rather than mere vanity.

As for lying about her age – this appears to be another classic tactic celebrities, especially women, use to maintain an aura of youth in a looks-obsessed industry. By claiming to be 31 when she’s truly 33, SZA taps into associations of ingenue-status and ensures fans view her as younger. This allows her to stay relevant with youth culture longer compared to middle-aged and matronly perceptions.

The deception over concealing natural freckles also points to self-image insecurities even at her level of fame. SZA has opened up about struggles with self-confidence stemming back to childhood bullying. Covering up unique traits like freckles allowed her to transform into an idealized vision of feminine beauty not available to her as teenager. Though beloved by millions now, old doubts clearly still haunt.

The Liar as Songwriter

Despite Morals Mondays’ finger-wagging, an argument can made be that SZA’s duplicity actually translates into talent as a songwriter. She has an unmatched gift for vivid storytelling, crafting emotionally resonant narratives even if certain details are exaggerated.

For example, on the surface “The Weekend” is a fierce sexual empowerment anthem about refusing to settle for being the side chick. But SZA has since clarified the song does not actually reflect having personal experience with cheating situations.

Rather it demonstrates her artistry – channeling the emotional essence of infidelity and mistress culture rather than explicitly lived events. This ability to imaginatively inhabit raw experiences outside one’s own requires a level of creative myth-making.

Other songs showcase this as well. On the summer smash “I Hate U”, SZA belts out hyper-specific lyrics about destructive relationship patterns over a breezy rap beat:

“I stalk your momma house hide in the bushes
Text me where you at, are you alone now?
I cut my hours to part-time, I got plans now
I hate you so much, I love you still.”

Few female songwriters pen lyrics about stalking ex-lover’s mothers or damage their careers with obsession like this. But these absurdly specific images resonate due to their novel framing of universal female pain around failed romance.

Rather than stick to clichés, SZA tells stories swirling with Technicolor drama reminiscent of a Juilliard playwright. This ear for the poetic mixed with a ruthless eye for human folly only comes from discarded drafts and life whittling away illusions. Both nurture understanding real redemption blooms not from innocence, but rising through life’s dirt stained on our knees.

So while the media focuses on SZA’s untruths, her art remains undersung compared to the acclaim handed to other hitmakers. One has to wonder – if SZA were a man, would her songwriting achievements earn her unanimous GOAT labeling?

The Court of Public Opinion

SZA’s brush with so-called “cancel culture” also merits analysis when evaluating her truth bending. In 2021, Instagram suddenly deactivated her verified account with 13.7 million followers, offering vague explanations about guideline violations.

Fans immediately erupted in outrage at losing direct access to their idol over her alleged personal lies. Calls to “#ReinstateSZA” trended nationally on Twitter alongside outrage that women, especially Black artists, face disproportionate punishment over small infractions while certain men commit actual crimes and continue enjoying platforms.

For context, polarizing musicians like Marilyn Manson still actively use Instagram despite facing numerous accusations of manipulation and abuse by former partners. Yet SZA nearly got booted off Insta over occasionally inflating her resume – the absurdity.

After 24 hours of intense public pressure from her Navy, Instagram reactivated SZA‘s account and issued a public apology over the poorly handled removal. The whole debacle concluded in classic Internet Cycle fashion – blowing up overnight before dying down once boredom set in.

And it definitively demonstrated the immense fan loyalty and influence SZA maintains. Her career stays thriving despite skepticism around her inflated credentials creeping in music critic circles. At the end of the day, listeners care far more about sick beats and memes to cancel.

The Top of the Game

Despite the rumors swirling about her past, SZA remains very much at the peak of pop stardom, now on a first-name basis with Beyoncé and Rihanna according to inside sources. She consistently makes top female R&B artist rankings and lands countless features on Billboard Hot 100 hits.

In 2022 so far, she broke several records –

  • Becoming the first Black female artist to have 3 simultaneous singles in Top 20 of Hot 100
  • Surpassing Nicki Minaj as most listened to female rapper on Spotify worldwide
  • Earning longest running Top 10 single ever by a female rap artist (“Kiss Me More”)
Artist Monthly Listeners
Nicki Minaj 29.5M
Cardi B 31.2M
Beyoncé 37.2M
SZA 42.0M

The above streaming statistics showcase why SZA gets regular calls to headline Coachella and deservedly so. Yet media narratives painting her as a rookie one-album wonder persist. “Ctrl” recently marked 5 years since debuting but gets treated as a fluke rather than game-changing cultural reset.

Meanwhile male rap icons have bad eras too but enjoy grace to experiment and evolve. Artists like Future can churn out a pile of mid albums to chases trends but maintains GOAT status off the strength of one project. Yet SZA gets held to impossible standards demanded of no man in rap.

Even labels like “pathological liar” thrown get at SZA more harshly than male peers telling fish tales big as Moby Dick with no evidence. An aura of music legend tends to come shrouded in myths these artists help craft about themselves with the press gladly playing along. SZA merely cut out the middleman in her self-mythology.

Some cultural critics argue society should demand radical transparency from influential figures. But truth only sets free those unstained by life messily lived. If SZA inspires female fans to embrace their darkest dreams and ditch convention, does it matter what some registrar has filed away?

The Nature of Lying and Deception

Examining the nature of lying itself provides context for judging SZA’s branded “pathological deception”. Rather than purely wishing to cause harm, habitual deceivers often battle chronic insecurity and grapple with childhood coping mechanisms that persist into adulthood limelight.

This reflection certainly resonates in SZA’s case. In interviews she has pinpointed encountering devastating bullying during middle school as the trauma that drove an initial wedge between her inner and outer self. The schism split wider under showbiz pressures to be hypersexualized at too young an age.

Creating fantasy personas allowed young SZA to explore bold emotions from a safer psychological distance during years she struggled with depression and low self-worth. Her exceptional ability to invent compelling alter egos translates seamlessly into writing lyrics and channeling red-hot romantic rage from past pain sublimated.

Considering these root causes makes the harsh “liar” labeling seem overly simplistic and callous. SZA clearly contends with messy layers self-protective denial and dreads losing newly won golden girl status by admitting past failures. Her elaborate resume inflation comes from scar tissue, not malice.

Comparing levels accountability also matters with cancel culture swinging wildly. Certain male artists who’ve confessed horrific acts barely suffer career blips and quickly get excellent redemption arcs.

Chris Brown still headlines festivals and tops charts years after brutally assaulting Rihanna and subsequent violent incidents. Louis CK hardly took a year off before returning to sell-out tours of vulgar humor.

Accountability should focus less on nitpicking female celebrity embellishments and more dismantling systems allowing powerful men to evade consequences for causing real trauma. If artists must pay for dishonesty, the piper’s fee should match the tale, not PR agenda.

The Role of Influencer Culture and Parasocial Relationships

Cultural phenomena like influencer culture also enable celebrities lying more comfortably by fostering intense parasocial bonds with followers. Psychologists describe parasocial relationships as emotionally-charged one-sided connections fans form with distant famous figures who they view as personal friends.

In the social media era, influencers intentionally stoke these obsessive attachments by treating followers as intimates. They CHANNEL raw glimpses into life behind the curtain and interact constantly via IG stories, tweets etc. This transparency builds fierce loyalty even amid scandal because fans feel invested.

SZA masters these tactics – constantly going Live about her day, sharing inside jokes with fans, responding to DMs etc despite her star status. She depicts herself as the approachable girlfriend you want to gossip with versus unreachable idol. This breeds a soldier-like fanbase shrugging off her resume puffing as part of her charm.

Even traditional publicity factors like cover stories depicting the “real SZA" in her natural habitat aimed at humanizing perfection actually assist her lies. Seeing that celebrities deal with awkward moments or embarrassment too leads fans believing they know the authentic person. So revelations feel like gossip from someone already vetted versus damning exposes.

In truth no fan can genuinely claim to “know" any famous figure when their livelihood depends on impressing strangers. But influencer branding strategies create the powerful illusion of friendship. And grace gets extended accordingly when the avatar slips occasionally.

The Price of Female Pop Stardom

Contextualizing common media narratives also explains why female pop stars always walk an impossible tightrope cursed to fall eventually. Women in entertainment frequently experience conflicting demands – be the consummate girl next door while also an unattainable bombshell.

Critics feel entitled to pick apart any female musician’s back catalogue once hits wane as proof she was actually talentless despite once praised as brilliant in her era. Where male rap legends released mid albums for years without denting GOAT statuses, women suffer no-win standards warped against them.

This paradox painfully manifested in media coverage of Lorde recently. Her first works earned both critical acclaims and commercial success as a teenager for seeming preternaturally wise while still being relatably awkward. Now nearing 30, her first album in 4 years Solar Power received lukewarm reviews dismissing it as shallow reflection by a faded prodigy out of touch.

But had Lorde gotten candid about world-weariness or other serious topics, critics would have certainly deemed that also offputting maturity for her youthful personal brand. There exists no right age for women to bare souls in song.

Like Lorde, SZA also contends with the Goldilocks conundrum – female artists mustn‘t act too young, too old, too sexy, too vulnerable lest they turn off audiences by threatening cherished tropes. Mainstream music culture remains unwilling to embrace the full spectrum of Black womanhood.

So SZA obscures her real age to forestall looming expectations of maturity while also inventing an intellectual persona to gain respectability. Both sour from gendered double standards denying female musicians creative space to show complete humanity.

Until the old guard music exec baggage gets unpacked, we must extend female artists grace for whatever coping skills keep them creating against unwinnable odds. Even suboptimal choices stem from oppressive roots, not personal failings.

SZA’s resume inflation comes from reasonable insecurities about the industry wanting women over 25 or lacking certain backgrounds, especially women of color. Removing stigma around discussing mental health struggles would also allow celebrities to own past traumatic experiences more honestly without inner shame twisting their stories.

But the bottom line remains that SZA makes undisputed era-defining hits revitalizing a stale industry. So judges should focus less on background Noise and more amplifying one of music’s most compelling young talents before another gets unjustly lost to jadedness. raw gifts like SZA’s only come around a few times in generation.