Achieving a squirting orgasm with your partner can be an exciting and deeply connecting experience when approached with care, consent, and communication. Here is some guidance on how to help make this possible while ensuring her comfort.
1. Set the right mood
Create an environment where she feels safe, relaxed, and unhurried. Take things slowly, spend time on foreplay, and check in frequently on what feels good for her. Feeling comfortable and aroused is key for her to be able to open up and let go.
2. Discuss desires openly
Have an open and judgment-free conversation outside the bedroom about your mutual interests and boundaries. Make sure you both feel safe to stop at any time. Go at her pace and don‘t put pressure on expectations.
3. Take your time with arousal
Arouse her fully before genital stimulation through massage, kissing, dirty talk etc. Pay close attention to signs she is turned on like heavy breathing and flushed skin. Spend plenty of time bringing her to the edge of orgasm.
4. Explore erogenous zones
Use your fingers, mouth and toys to gently stimulate erogenous areas like her clitoris, labia and vaginal opening. Experiment with different motions and pressures based on her feedback.
5. Locate and massage the G-Spot
Curve your fingers in a "come hither” motion along the front vaginal wall a few inches inside to locate a spongy, ridged area. Apply firm pressure here while continuing clitoral stimulation.
6. Support her release
As she nears orgasm, maintain steady rhythmic stimulation and encourage her to bear down and let go as she climaxes. Having towels handy can help her feel more relaxed.
The key is to go slowly, communicate every step of the way, and make sure she feels safe and comfortable. Avoid pressuring expectations and instead focus on her pleasure. Each woman’s experience with squirting is unique, so check-in frequently and let her body guide you. Above all, make sure you both enjoy the sensual journey together.